一个来自朋友的意见
有个朋友,看了我的部落格之后,写了这样的一篇文章:
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dai lou!haih…love ar…centuries ago is a quite complicated topic…pl sed:women,complicated..bt man,i tel u,men r more damn complicated!!act can sed men=women=complicated gua…
stil remember,laz time,u ar,alwiz cum 2my top list topic(when i was holding da CNN post),evi skulday my ‘paparazi’,no la,my ‘teamate’,alwiz gv me report bt u!!they start wiv dis:ei boss,u noe?da new guy,dat eldest 1yr than us,vy geng in social de leh…gals r vy vy suk wiv him leh..i sed:walau…ini bukan orang calang calang de leh…kai wan siao!keep search bt him,i mean,u…then i realise i no nid 2ask ppl search d…
i saw u,n gals siting on staircase,clssroom,chat after skul!!!like counsellor!!love counsellor!!holy shit man…
n then…oh,i remember u,u same bus wiv me b4!n i even wrap ur wound in bus,coz i wana show hw caring person i am 2gals in bus!!!haha..nw thinking b,childish…sweat…u cal juan yih,bt they translate 2ur name 2jun yat(loyal)..haha…reali funny leh…
bt then..sumthg change,thgs change rite after lower 6 dinner nite,my claz lost 2F2…argh..dun1 mention la…haha…k,cont…i heard,ppl,ofcoz ppl,students,classmate,ur classmate,in da lecture hall…we study physic 2gether in lecture hall laz time…remember??i heard a gal,if im nt mistaken,is da gal u like gua,duno,dun k,she complain 2da guys n others dat u a lil bit over mesra when taking photos…i think is bcoz u put a hand on her shoulder…bt its normal rite?clazmate ma…duno…n then,ofcoz,sum guys,envy,add oil inside,NT ADD OIL 4U AR,dun mistaken,sed sum thgs la,sed u geting closer n closer 2ppl when toking,xpecialy gals…n then straight away u gt a nick,damn scuking nick man,ham sap lou,i think it was funny dat time,bt think twice,if i gt so gelaran,damn,i surely cried d…i think it was pathetic…i duno u guys…
then,ur relation wiv ur classmate geting worse n worse…then within a month,u bcum delocalised electron,man,i read chemistry!!haha…ok,no joke..i oso duno wat 2respon…hw cum thgs change so faz…no idea…bt dats realia valuable news 4me…patheticly,i din spread it…shit..
n then,thgs doesnt run smooth…frm wat i heard la…n then,i get 2noe u…sumhw…i 4get d…izit bcoz u live pasir puteh?duno la…u remember u tel me…wat means thgs doesnt run smooth?hw 2sed?u nt giving a gud image lo…in many aspect…even dagei…mayb is u dun hv chance 2cheng qing 4yrself,or u dun wan 2cheng qing anyway…hey!i remembered!!dance club lo ding!!!so easy…
then times flow fazly 2upper6 d…upper 6…nt muc memory tim…bt i damn dun agree is da stupid survey held by ur class act…is gud if u vote whos da beautiful or whos da kindhearted mz…bt it seem like a set up.a trap,than a fcuking survey…im nt rubbing salt on ur wound,jz…try 2gv sum comment..u dun like it u can delete it k?seriously no offense…damn it man,guy wiv mz ham sap yen shen(i duno hw 2translate it)n guy who mz fah sam(flowerhearted,oso duno hw 2translate,haha..),names who gt inside,u,who gt da fcuking award,damn surely is u la!!oni 1name 2compete,shud i cal it compete?is a set up k??
man….
halo!!guys,gals…u r all 1class rite?arent u???izit so mean 2show dat u al r so freakingly dislike a person??cum on man…me either,is a person dat mzly classmate dislike in class,bt,at least they din sabotage me or boicot me so!!they noe hw 2leave a staircase 4me!!mz funny is,a guy,yeah,a guy,clssmate of urs,i saw him cuming 2u,smiling 2u,man,hate dat smile til nw,congrates u dat u gt da award!!bt mz funny is,he doesnt noe dat in da list,he gt da award dat is da person dat da whole clss mz wanted 2beat him up!!funny huh..?bt they din announce it!they din write on da blackboard like they wrote al da awards…damn…coz da guy is bf of a gal in ur classmate!!gam dou dak??damn it..
i saw u,u shifting ur table frm front,2back…i un ur feeling…partly,i reali un…then u came 2my class…i n stupid G,try 2tok 2u muc…try 2let u 4get bt da stupid awards…bt i dun think we help muc…rite?haih…wat2 do..
boss,i vy sleepy ar dailou…cont next time k?mama urge me 2sleep la…i oso more write more heng d…ding…is start 2rain nw…thx god!!k la,nites n sweet dreams…
ei,dun think 2muc la…wan2 find ppl yum cha u can find me geh if u wan…fong sum,i retire frm CNN centuries ago…ur dialog wiv me is P&C!!haha…c u…
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by, cHeAh MUn ChUN
你有在这里看到什么吗?
别人的是非?
对呀,我以前真的是很多人的话题,从头讲到脚,从外讲到内,无所不谈,无所不讲。
是非,就是这样的事情。在心理学来说,有人曾经做过这样的实验,我也不是记得很详细。它是这样的,一张纸写了很多句子,然后要求记得里面所有的句子,在背出来。然而,研究结果,那些让人印象深刻的,都是别人的是非,因为人脑对别人的是非都特别敏感。
从前的我,要别人不说我的是非都很难。毕竟,是一个“传奇人物”。有谁,会在学院读了一年后,再回到学校读中六?一踏进学校,就已经是非多多了,再加上我在外面一年,再大他们一岁,思想不同,就产生更多的是非了。
不过呢,是非就是非,让别人去说,自己也没能力理那么多。
还有呢,关于中六晚宴的事情,已经过去了,当事人也没有什么,只是,中六第二年没什么好过。失去了一些,可以成为好朋友的朋友,只能觉得可惜。
每天在学校,见到人我总是笑,因为一笑能解千愁。以前就知道这个道理,只是没有好好的运用。
是非,就让它吧。一人传虚也好,万人传实也罢,对得起天地良心,就可以了。
i think you are right gua. last time i cares about what people say about me. but… now it’s not the same anymore. they want to talk, just let them talk. it doesn’t matter with me. it’s their mouth, they can say anything. so just don’t bother about it
I’m angry, at first, cause i dunno all this issue about you, also because you never try to tell me, and also because i think i was your best friend. But then i calm, and think to myself you have your reason for not telling me, no matter what’s it. And then i feel sad, next time, when you not feeling easy, call me out! Punch me or make me buy you meals, whatever! Is okay for not telling me what happen, but that is not okay for frustrated alone. That’s hard to let me see you sad alone, okay? And don’t tell me you don’t bother about it, Even if you don’t bother about it, I damn sure you mind about it. You can choose to share me your sadness, is okay you keep all the fun and happy by yourself, but share me your sad, okay. Oh, well, If you got other friends to shared your sadness, that’s nice and I’m happy for you. Then next time i’m not that angry for you to not telling me your sadness.
Um… Well, I should say that, you are tough, tougher than you were. ANd congratulations, you has got some nice friends, well, like i told you, you have been my recycle bin, and hence I can be your’s anytime anyway, just makesure, you are afford to pay the phone bill. Just wanna make sure that you know you can rely on me, on us, I think HY won’t mind…