关于我……

又一个月过去了,只感觉到有某些事,越来越清楚。

心理学里提到的人与人之间的关系怎样发展,在很久以前,中国的人已经知道了。中国有提到,近水楼台先得月,春江水暖鸭先知,还有近朱者赤,近墨者黑。这些都提到了人与人之间的关系,是以距离越靠近,就越密切。当然,这是从两个人都是陌生的开始。

在学校可以看到,自从去年年终假期回来后,有多了几对情侣,然而,我要讲的不是这一些。

只是觉得,要与一群人维持良好的关系,是很困难得。当顾得来这里,又会忽略了另一边。还是,我不懂得维持良好的人际关系。又或者,已经围成一圈的一群人,很难接受外来的人。

最近在学校,觉得自己的烦恼越来越多,不知道是自己没有勇气去面对,还是另有原因。想找一个人诉苦,却又不知道应该找谁。唉,悲!



3 Comments so far

  1.   Poon on March 2nd, 2006

    The most important things that I learn about friendship is that friendship with not change when time pass, but it will only change when one among two side who are related together with friendship has change. Do not blame yourself for relation between friends has turn bad. And hoh, we’re always here for you too, you will lend you a finger if you need. Yes, is we but not me and I think you know who I talking about

  2.   Poon on March 2nd, 2006

    Sorry, misstype, the first “you” in “you will lend you a finger if you need” should be we.

  3.   foongyee on March 3rd, 2006

    gogo
    cheer up..
    u still have chance..
    trust me…
    ok..
    make sure u r happy!!!

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